Main Idea —

Paul warns Titus to avoid distractions and divisive people. Healthy churches are marked by unity, gentleness, and commitment to good works. Protecting unity is part of being a mature and grace-shaped community.

A church that is distracted by division and unfruitful debates cannot fulfill its mission. God calls us to be a people marked by gentleness, peace, and unity, so we may be ready and devoted to every good work.

Key Themes —

• Avoiding controversies and quarrels.

• Dealing division.

• Practicing gentleness.

• Being devoted to good works

Opening Questions —

• What is something small you have personally experienced or come across that has sparked big conflict?

• Why do you think people are drawn to arguments and controversies?

Read Together —

Titus 3:9-15

Discussion & Reflection —

1. Avoiding Distractions (v.9)

• What kinds of things does Paul warn Titus to avoid?

• Why are they “unprofitable and worthless”?

• What are some modern equivalents in today’s church or society?

2. Dealing with Division (v.10–11)

• How does Paul instruct the church to respond to a divisive person?

• Why is unity so important to the health of a church?

• What is the difference between healthy disagreement and harmful division?

3. Gentleness as a Mark of Maturity (v.2)

• Paul earlier told the church to be “gentle, showing perfect courtesy.”

• How does gentleness strengthen unity?

• In your opinion, what is more powerful: being right or being kind?

• How can we grow in grace, peace, and perseverance as a group?

4. Living Ready for Good Works (v.12–15)

• In verses 12–14, what practical instructions does Paul give to the church community?

• How is unity connected to fruitfulness and mission?

• How can a community that perseveres in unity become a powerful witness in a divided world?

Prayer & Ministry —

• Ask God to reveal any unhealthy arguments, pride, or bitterness that may block unity.

• Pray for a spirit of gentleness, humility, and grace in your church family.

• Pray that your group and community would be ready for good works, marked by harmony.

Application / Takeaway —

• This week, look for one opportunity to promote unity — whether it is reconciling, listening, encouraging, or helping someone feel included.

• Ask God to help you stay focused on what is profitable and eternal, rather than distracted by what is “unprofitable and worthless.”